Self-Reflection, Shattering the Myth of Your Own Reality
Eyes wide open in a candid moment
Opening the doorway, ever so slightly
Peering into the enormous expanse
It’s filled with light, sound, and energy
The sacred place called self-reflection
A little wider and then a tilted stare
Trying to grasp what lies in store
Uncertainty and trepidation for sure
Step through; but only if you are ready
There’s no one there to guide you
Just you and your willingness to see
No shield nor mask to hide behind
Therein lies your ever-building fear
Facing the music of your own existence
You cannot lie and you cannot pretend
The events of your life are waiting
You see, self-reflection is self-examination
A surgical intrusion into the reasoning
Conjecture finally brought to completeness
Facts are facts and fiction does not exist
Here you contemplate your every thought
Each decision and each division
Your future poised on the precipice
Self-judgement becomes self-awareness
You see the makings of your own beliefs
Where the influence lies and also why
Your moral compass never wavering
Truth, fact, deception, and illusions
Reckoning is taking full responsibility
The shroud of every persona lifted
Discover what and who you really are
Focus on where you are and want to be
Unless you’d rather not take the step
Continue living in a state of complacency
Believing in your own colorful curtain
Blocking because of the possible difficulties
And vocalizing that which you call indignity
It is easier to yell and an empty room
Than slowly fill it with the righteous things
Extracting happiness and truly living
But that is purely your decision
Continue being a part of the failing system
Or grasp your inner beauty and display it
It takes strength and a great testament of will
For there will be demons to vanquish
Hardened truths to face and accept
The journey will be life-changing
And once taken, permanent and fulfilling
In the moment of wavering
Remember that you are the only one
To decide if you are ready to face your fear
Shatter the myth, once and for all
And fully engage in self-reflection
Additional Reading by R.J. Schwartz
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The Lover’s Thread, Poetry of Love and Romance
Poetry of the Human Condition, The Ups and Downs of Modern Living
The Creative Exiles an anthology of poems: Let the Words Speak
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Ralph self-reflection is a sacred and powerful place. Well-crafted poetry on an important part of growing as a person. Thank you. Jamie