If Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them….my venting

If Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them...my venting
If Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them…my venting

How a soul can turn so abruptly
into something else, astounds me,
after many years of normality, being loving and kind,
turn into a habitual liar, a malicious manipulator
and someone you’d go out of your way to avoid?

How can a mind so family oriented,
so nurturing and outwardly happy,
resort to hatred, disdain and hurtful acts
against those who have loved her most,
supported her most in life?

How can a person become so evil in intent,
so damning in attack and so deluded to be unaware,
that every word that comes from her mouth
is directed pointedly to manipulate, to cause harm
and undermine innocents.

How can this person live with themselves,
not know their dark and malicious forays
are a refection of who they really are,
a self-centered, ignorant, unintelligent fool,
who has lost her family, and trust never to be restored?

I am appalled she still chooses to bare my name,
converses with my children,
has influence on my family
and those I have known for over thirty years,
and I and her mother,
having done nothing at all, bare the brunt of her fury,
her insane tirades and lies
that in the end class her as completely and mindlessly lost.

Tony DeLorger © 2016

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Tony DeLorger

Full time author, freelance writer, poet and blogger since 1999. Twenty one published works, past winner of 'Poet of the Year' on HubPages, 'Poem of the Year' on The Creative Exiles, writer for Allpoetry.com, Google+, tonydwtf.blogspot.com.au videos on YouTube and book sales on website thoughtsforabeautifulmind.com, Amazon and digitalprintaustralia.com.au/bookstore

2 thoughts on “If Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them….my venting

  • December 7, 2016 at 1:43 AM
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    So devastating for you, her mother and all who loved and knew her as she once was. There may be no answer to this situation. I am understanding that nothing gets through to her, but is there any way to seek psychological help for her and counseling for the family? I pray your family will hold together in love and support for each other.

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  • December 7, 2016 at 4:11 AM
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    I sent her a letter of concern, reiterating all she’d done and continued to do. I asked her to get checked out by a doctor because both schizophrenia and dementia are in her father’s direct line. She had a doctors appointment and just slurred over the question and came back saying her memory losses were just due to stress, which I have no idea what stresses she’s under at all. We can do no more. She is now estranged from her mother and if she’s not careful our two children. Sad but she is absolutely malicious, and vindictive and I for one don’t want to have anything more to do with her.

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